"When you first get that beautiful ring from your guy, the initial excitement can be overwhelming. After crying and screaming with joy, it is nice to make some calls and send texts and emails to spread the good news to the world," says Candice Benson, president and founder of The Finishing Touch. "Once the initial communication phase is over, it is time to start making some important decisions about your big day."
Size Your Ring and Get it Insured
Now that you have your new bling, the last thing you want to happen is that it falls off of your finger. To make sure your ring is secure, and that you will always be able to treasure it as a family heirloom, be sure to have it properly sized by your jeweler. In your fiance’s excitement to purchase the perfect sparkler for you, he may have neglected to buy ring insurance. Follow up with your jeweler immediately to review the available insurance options for your ring.
Agree on Your Budget and Prioritize What is Important to You
One of the first things you will want to do with your fiance and both of your parents is to sit down and outline your budget. Think about how much money you will have to spend so you can start thinking about the type of wedding you can afford to have. Key to setting your budget is to prioritize the three areas that are most important to you. Making sure to pay special attention to those areas that are most important will ensure you don’t overspend in other areas as you continue on your planning process.
Hire a Wedding Planner
Finding the perfect planner will be one of your first major steps toward having the wedding of your dreams. Once you determine how much money you can actually spend, your planner will guide you in allocating the money properly for each category including venue, flowers, dress, etc. Your planner will recommend the most professional wedding professionals that best fit your budget. Due to years of relationships, you will also be more likely to get the best deals. He or She will also be sure to keep you on target with your deliverables, ensuring less stress as the big day gets closer. Your planner will be there to offer suggestions and direction on your overall design, starting with your save the date and invitation, down to the tiniest elements of the day.
Get Inspired
Now that you have your planner, you will want to get some ideas for the vision of your big day. Look to weddings that your planner has organized for ideas on tablescapes and florals. For dresses and cakes, thumb through some of the great bridal magazines, including (201) Bride.
Choose Your Bridal Party
You will need a great support team as you start planning your big day. Think about how big you want your bridal party, and reach out to the people you will want standing by your side as you say your vows. Be sure to think of creative personalized ways to ask those that are closest to you to join you in your planning journey.
Start a Wedding Website or Blog
Taking some of your plans online so your family and friends can stay in the loop as you get closer to your Wedding is a great way to generate excitement about your special event. It will also help you share important details with your guests as they make travel and hotel accommodations and plan to take in the local attractions.
Take Time to Enjoy Your Honey
One of the most important things to remember when planning your wedding is that it can sometimes be a stressful time, so be sure to enjoy moments with your fiance. Spend evenings enjoying dinner together or schedule a couple’s massage. Whatever you do, take the time to let each other know how much you appreciate one another and how excited you are to get married.
New Jersey-based The Finishing Touch is a full service wedding and special event planning company specializing in designing, planning and coordinating clients’ special events.